Even when you walk away it may still pull at your heart. It is so much easier to let go of someone when it is clear she doesn’t care about you.
Since the bad side was a part of the package and could not be changed, the whole package has to be let go off. You go back to them for comfort or in hopes of understanding what happened. Mine that relationship for what you want in your current or future relationship.Mine the ex-relationship for clues of what you truly want in a wonderful, fulfilling relationship. I have seen her a couple of times in the past several months. She never called back and has moved onto some one else. One morning we got into a terrible fight and I left to go buy him cigarettes and when I got back he was gone.Now you have a good idea of what you are looking for in your next partner or what you should put into your current relationship. Moving on to another relationship after such an experience is difficult. Saw her a couple weeks ago and she just brushed our time aside as it never happened. So, we were together 2 years and lived together for a year. He then began to due drugs again (his real parents were drug addicts and alcoholics). He went over to his friends out that recently got divorced.If you are ever to be fulfilled in any relationship, you must let go completely of this past partner.You don’t believe that you will meet another partner who will give you all the good you had in your ex-relationship.